Forgiveness is my candidate for the most under-used tool.  If you think of a more useful, less-used tool for self-healing, contact me!

Q:  If everyone has forgiveness in their toolbox, who is it under-used?

A:  People use forgiveness like a one-time affirmation and it does not work that way.  Most people I meet are not getting much of an inner shift with forgiveness because they use it like an affirmation.  Slow-Motion Forgiveness(TM) corrects this, making forgiveness effective for very many unresolved issues people face.

Q:  How does forgiveness work?

A:  To understand forgiveness, we have to step back and look at judgement also.  Learn how judgment works in the inner child and immune system and how to forgive becomes clear.

One job the basic self, the inner child, has is recording and storing unresolved disturbances, until they are accessed, and the life lessons extracted by the soul.  The soul knows all 3D experience is valuable and useful. The basic self records and holds onto all experiences charged with emotion but left unresolved.

Example of how an issue forms

For example, say you have an issue with feeling betrayed; you are super-sensitive to any sense you might be betrayed again.  Do you think this formed from a single incident?  Or do you think this formed from feeling betrayed over and over?  For a bona fide issue to form, requires many instances of feeling a negative emotion.  For faulty beliefs to become conscious here in 3D, requires much “rehearsing” and reinforcing.  The basic self records each of those instances.  Some clairvoyants see these hurts, these judgments, as pins.  Hence the commonly heard phrase “human pin cushion.”

When we have many instances of the same unresolved feeling, the inner child needs a simpler way to keep track of these incidents–it simply numbers them:  the first time I allowed myself to feel betrayed and let down, the second time I allowed myself to feel betrayed and let down, etc.

That’s the bad news:  each incident of feeling betrayed IS recorded.  The good news is, since incidents are recorded by the number―they can simply be forgiven by the number!

Therefore, the process of Slow-motion forgiveness goes like this:

“I forgive myself for allowing myself to feel __________ (i.e. betrayal), the first time, the second time, the third time 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12 . . .

Q:  How do I know slow-motion forgiveness™ is working for me?

A:  You are looking for any inner shift of your energy.  Anything.  Count as long as energy continues to shift, move and clear.  There is no ritual here.  If no energy moves, try changing-adjusting the forgiveness target emotion.

Q:  How high do I count?

A:  Keep counting as long as energy moves inside you.  I ask clients in 1:1 sessions to coiunt to 30 or 50.  In the next three days, it can be very healing for clients do it again–as long as energy moves somehow.  I count to 1000 on my own issues.  I often do this walking, one number per step.

Q:  How do I know if I have identified the best target emotion?

A:  If energy moves, it’s a “hit.”  If nothing moves, change something.  Please do make up your own verbal formulas and try them!  You know you have the right word formula if energy moves and clears. Feel free to change the words to “hit the nail more on the head.” This is trial and error, simple scientific method.  NLP puts it this way, “If you don’t get the result you wish, try something else.”  The University of Santa Monica (USM) puts it this way, “Make something up,” (MSU).

Q:  What will I feel?

A:  Often clients cannot feel the energy move. A more intuitive person can tell them what’s occurring.  The typical experience is throwing off a burden you no longer wish to carry.  This feels like throwing off a wet blanket.  Give me a phone call if you get stuck.

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You found it!  This is your ticket to the club of people healing themselves at a more rapid rate than the general public.  This is your ticket to the lifestyle of healers—whether you practice with clients or not!  In this lifestyle, if you do the work, it’s possible to have a healing almost every day.

I define self-healing as asking for, and arranging things, to create shifts in your mental, emotional, unconscious & spiritual energies, towards wellness & wholeness.  Physical improvements then become inevitable.

Do this enuf times and you can, over time, tramp your way out of arthritic symptoms, benign brain tumors, teeth and gum problems, low self-esteem and a thousand sub- and unconscious disturbances, like I have in 30 years.

As the price of health care goes up and the supply of general practice physicians goes down–taking care of yourself first is the most practical thing we can do for ourselves.

Healthcare starts and ends with SELF-care–always has, always will.  All healthcare should begin with self-healing, don’t you agree?

In the future, all health care for adults, except emergency care, will begin with self-care, self-healing, kinesiology and energetic practices.  These are the least-cost ways to address problems, corrctions and prevention.  Better self-care is most impactful on chronic and degenerative conditions, the most problematic conditions.

Earlier self-healing was pretty much reswtricted to herbs, massage, and reflexology.  In the 1970s this changed when Applied Kinesiology restricted to chiropractors lead to Touch for Health for nurses and lay persons.  .  The 1970s brougt the sub-culture of dowsing more public exposure.  Many of the energetic modaliteis we have today can be described as teh “children” of Touch for Health, dowsing and NLP.  These three converged in various ways to produce:

Psych-K – belief portion of Touch for Health usefully expanded,

Energy Medicine – the meridian cleairing part of TforH usefully expanded,

EFT – meridian clearing applied to trauma release,

Theta Healing – clearing of beliefs combined with many otehr isnights,

Babinetics – a combination of TCM, muscle testing, and new ideas, leading to,

Peace Theological Seminary Masters & Doctorate programs.

Dowsing and NLP both encouraged individuals to develop custom protocols to address specific issues, problems and situaitons.

Q:  Which modality will work best for me?

A:  Everyone heals uniquely.  The best one for you–is teh one that works and gets you results.  As long as beneficial results keep appearing, keep using it.  When it stops working, have the wit to let it go and move to something else.  Several large books, catalogues for nurses exist, large lists of complementary and energetic healing modaliites at Amazon under “alternative medicine.”

In practice, you’ll find yourself gravitating either more towards modalities exercising Sensory and Thinking percepts, like chiropractic and muscle manipulation; or, towards iNtuitive and Feeling percepts.  Learn more about your own personal preferences in by Googling MBTI +test.  If you get stuck, give me a call.

Next article:  What’s in your self-healing toolbox?

Surprisingly, the effectiveness of any client session can be estimated with some accuracy.

This has to be done right at the start, as soon as a client announces what issue they wish to work on.

What the conscious self wishes to work on is the “target” of the session.

I encourage clients to compose a “shopping list” of issues they wish to clear up.  This is what I do when I have 1:1 sessions with my coach in medical Intuition.  When clients have a shopping list, the conscious self has many “targets.”

How to test?  Simple.  You need permission to muscle test or surrogate test your client.  If this is a phone session, you will be doing surrogate testing.  Don’t know how?  Then you are t the stage of more practice with muscle testing and self-testing.  You might like the book Self-healing 101! Awakening the Inner Healer on this.  It has eight simple exercises to get you into self-testing the EASY way.

If the conscious self has just told you, “I want to quit smoking,” that’s a clear target.  It’s wise to slow down and first test and check how the inner child of the client feels about giving up smoking.  The inner child can count to ten so you can measure its willingness to change the smoking habit on a scale of ten.  I find a willingness to heal in the inner child needs to be 7 or higher for the session to produce results the client feels as “real.”  If the basic self is not aligned with healing or changing the unwanted habit, if the willingness to heal is 6/10 or lower, the session can easily be sabotaged by this lack of alignment on the target, in the client.

Need an example of what it looks like when the conscious self and basic self are out of alignment?  This is where much of the humor of Steven Colbert on the Colbert Report comes from.  On his first show, Colbert is surrounded with large stage props with his name in big letters.  The big letters throw a shadow of his name on the curtain behind him.  His name is on three sides of his desk.  Finally his desk, from above, is in the shape of a letter “C.”  Colbert points to all these and then turns to the audience and says, But this show is not about me–it’s about you.”  This sense of not-matching, of mismatch, is the source of much humor and often used to deflate big egos who are out of touch with themselves, with their basic self.

The degree of change achieved as perceived by clients, appears to have 90% to do with the client’s willingness to heal, not to the skill of the practitioner.  I measure every client’s willingness to heal their issue as a preliminary intake question.

Always make sure the conscious self an basic self are in agreement on the goal the client announces.  The greater a client’s willingness to heal, the easier the healing and the more dramatic results are likely to be.

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